God knows exactly where you are even when you feel He is miles away. He is there guiding us, He knows what plans He has for you and your family and we have to learn to trust Him and keep our faith strong in Him even when it seems to hard to do and we just want to give up.
We need to learn not to complain on top of our blessing so to speak, instead of complaining we need to keep digging (praying, reading His word and trusting Him) for the deeper blessings that He has for us. So many people don't realize that instead of complaining when things go wrong, they could pray and see a change sooner. We are God's chosen people so we have no right to complain because He knows what He is doing. What we think He wants for us is probably so far from what He really wants for us because we can't see the Great blessing He has instore for us if we get lost trying to get a small blessing that will turn into a curse!
So this year keep digging for your blessing and keep trusting Him, He will bring you and your family through that bad situation and tough time. He will save that lost loved one you have been praying for. He will bring you out of that tough fiancial situations you have been battling. Keep the faith and you will be a stronger and better christian in the end.